On one hand we have the Traditionalists, who believe he should always pay. Even the offer of a gold coin donation would be scoffed at. Then we have the Feminists, the Thanks-But-No-Thanks independent women of the 21st century. They’ve got a solid income and an air of confidence — perhaps they’ll pay for the lot?

 

Then there’s me, stuck in the awkward act of half pulling out my purse whilst saying thank you, unsure whether to throw my money or myself at him for the gesture. So to make it easier and less cringe-worthy for girls of the single world (because let’s face it, sometimes it’s a battle even getting a date in the first place) , here are some helpful tips to avoid looking like a scrooge or a stooge.  

 

When He Pays

Sex and the City re-runs and a back catalogue of 90s chick flicks tell us dating is a sit-down dinner with good conversation and hopefully a bottle of wine to ease any awkwardness. In many girls’ humble opinion, this is the kind of date the guy should pay for. Also if a guy’s invite goes a little something like, “I know this GREAT place for Thai food, I’ll take you there next Friday” – he’s got this one.

 

When You Pay

Whether you’ve been working your ass off at your job or studying day and night for uni exams, you’ve finally reached the finish line. Time for a drink! If you text a new suitor to catch up for a celebratory drink – the milky bars are on you, girlfriend…Well, at least the first round.

 

When You Both Pay

Uni life is fun, but your wallet (and his) can look a little thin. If you’re not really in the financial position to fork out for that special seafood platter for two – chances are he isn’t either. So go halves! Problem solved.